I've never felt like this, so it's hard for me to turn my back on it just because they aren't happy with it. Coming from experience, it is really up to you if it is worth it. I feel ill about it all now and am deciding if I can, and will it always be like this. I want to be married and possibly have kids of my own. I don't want to be in the same place I am now a year from now and I'm really worried I will be. Guy, I appreciated reading the other post you send.
"When Madaline is out of the house I want to date, but I don't know how." Samantha has been divorced for only a year, but would like to start dating again even though her two boys are still in elementary school.The majority immediately scramble to salvage their marriages, citing family or finances, prepared to agree to anything to keep their world in tact.Often this is in reaction to the shock, and not being prepared.And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.Healing is also necessary to follow God's command to" do unto others what you would have them do unto you," (Matthew ).Continually bringing us his ex will add stress to his life, forcing him to remember things he doesn't wish to. Some women doubt they are good enough, seeing herself and his ex as competitors. You are a person with your own beliefs, perspectives, and opinions, and those things are what attracted him to you.